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3 May 2008

Mildred Loving Followed Her Heart and Made History

Mildred Loving died yesterday at her home in Virginia, USA of pneumonia, aged 68.

In 1958, Mildred Jeter, a black woman legally married Richard Loving, a white man in the District of Colombia, USA. They returned to their home in the state of Virginia. Under a Virginia law enacted in 1691, blacks and whites were prohibited from marrying.

   

 

  
Mildred and Richard Loving in 1967
Photo: Associated Press

 

In 1967, in the case of Loving v. Virginia, the US Supreme Court struck down miscegenation laws that prohibited blacks and whites from marrying as a violation of the US Constitution's equal protection clause.

In 1958, the country sheriff and two deputies broke into the bedroom of newlyweds Mildred and Richard Loving. They were arrested for violating Virginia's Racial Integrity Act. Their prison term was suspended on the condition that they not live in Virginia and that they not return to the state for any other purpose at the same time for 25 years.

There were 38 US states that, at one time, had miscegenation laws. In 1948, the California Supreme Court was the first state to judicially overturn such a law. Previous attempts to overturn miscegenation laws were unsuccessful. In 1967, when Loving v. Virginia was decided there were 16 states that still prohibited interracial marriage.

Under miscegenation laws, children from interracial marriages were considered illegitimate and spouses and heirs could not receive inheritance rights or death benefits.

When the Lovings were tried in Virginia, the presiding Judge Leon Bazile upheld the Racial Integrity Act by stating that if God had intended the races to mix he would not have placed them on different continents.

Acting on advice from the then US Attorney-General Robert Kennedy, the Lovings sought the assistance of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). The ACLU took the case from the Virginia Supreme Court to the US Supreme Court.

In 2007, on the 40th anniversary of Loving v. Virginia, Mildred Loving issued a statement urging that gay men and lesbians be allowed to marry. The full statement appears below.

Her life is an important vindication of marriage as a cherished civil right, and a testament to the importance of fighting for equality, rather than sitting by silently, indifferently, or complacently in the face of cruel exclusion.

 


Loving for All

By Mildred Loving

Prepared for Delivery on 12 June 2007
on the 40
th Anniversary of the Loving vs. Virginia Announcement


When my late husband, Richard, and I got married in Washington, DC in 1958, it wasn't to make a political statement or start a fight. We were in love, and we wanted to be married.
 

We didn't get married in Washington because we wanted to marry there. We did it there because the government wouldn't allow us to marry back home in Virginia where we grew up, where we met, where we fell in love, and where we wanted to be together and build our family. You see, I am a woman of color and Richard was white, and at that time people believed it was okay to keep us from marrying because of their ideas of who should marry whom.


When Richard and I came back to our home in Virginia, happily married, we had no intention of battling over the law. We made a commitment to each other in our love and lives, and now had the legal commitment, called marriage, to match. Isn't that what marriage is?
 

Not long after our wedding, we were awakened in the middle of the night in our own bedroom by deputy sheriffs and actually arrested for the "crime" of marrying the wrong kind of person. Our marriage certificate was hanging on the wall above the bed.
 

The state prosecuted Richard and me, and after we were found guilty, the judge declared: "Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix."

He sentenced us to a year in prison, but offered to suspend the sentence if we left our home in Virginia for 25 years exile. We left, and got a lawyer. Richard and I had to fight, but still were not fighting for a

cause. We were fighting for our love. Though it turned out we had to fight, happily Richard and I didn't have to fight alone.
 

Thanks to groups like the ACLU and the NAACP Legal Defense & Education Fund, and so many good people around the country willing to speak up, we took our case for the freedom to marry all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court. And on June 12, 1967, the Supreme Court ruled unanimously that, "The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men," a "basic civil right."


My generation was bitterly divided over something that should have been so clear and right. The majority believed that what the judge said, that it was God's plan to keep people apart, and that government should discriminate against people in love. But I have lived long enough now to see big changes. The older generation's fears and prejudices have given way, and today's young people realize that if someone loves someone they

have a right to marry.
 

Surrounded as I am now by wonderful children and grandchildren, not a day goes by that I don't think of Richard and our love, our right to marry, and how much it meant to me to have that freedom to marry the person precious to me, even if others thought he was the "wrong kind of person" for me to marry. I believe all Americans, no matter their race, no matter their sex, no matter their sexual orientation, should have that same freedom to marry. Government has no business imposing some people’s religious beliefs over

others. Especially if it denies people’s civil rights.
 

I am still not a political person, but I am proud that Richard's and my name is on a court case that can help reinforce the love, the commitment, the fairness, and the family that so many people, black or white, young or old, gay or straight seek in life. I support the freedom to marry for all. That's what Loving, and loving, are all about.

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